About The Book
Not My Choice! is a deeply moving memoir that explores the lifelong impact of war, migration, and forced change through the eyes of a young girl.
Born in Germany at the outbreak of World War II, Brigitte Nioche grew up surrounded by loss, uncertainty, and the quiet strength of family. When she is just thirteen years old, her world is uprooted once again as she and her mother leave everything familiar behind to immigrate to Australia. What is presented as an opportunity quickly reveals itself as a journey filled with cultural isolation, hardship, and emotional upheaval none of it chosen.
Told with remarkable clarity and honesty, the memoir traces Brigitte’s voyage across continents, from postwar Germany to Australia, and later to Canada and the United States. Along the way, readers witness the realities of immigrant camps, language barriers, and the loneliness of starting over, balanced by moments of kindness, resilience, and unexpected hope.
At its core, Not My Choice! is not only a story about immigration it is a story about identity, belonging, and the silent courage required to rebuild a life when circumstances leave no room for choice. Through vivid memories and intimate reflection, Brigitte gives voice to millions who were displaced by war and change, reminding readers that survival often begins where certainty ends.
Not My Choice! speaks to readers who are drawn to true stories of courage in the face of upheaval. It will resonate with those who understand what it means to leave a homeland behind, to grow up too soon, and to carry memories shaped by war, loss, and migration. This memoir is for anyone who has questioned where they belong, who has been shaped by forces beyond their control, and who believes that survival itself can be an act of quiet triumph.
At its heart, Not My Choice! is a testament to endurance, memory, and the extraordinary strength of the human spirit proof that even when life offers no choice, it is still possible to rebuild, to belong, and to rise.